What Do You Think You Deserve?

Are you having one of those days, weeks or months, where you feel like you are getting bad breaks, raw deals, unfair outcomes – things you don’t think you deserve? I just had a huge lesson in what “getting what you deserve” really means. Last week I flew off to the first of two back-to-back conferences.  When I got the car service in New York, they told me it would …
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Make Hay While the Sun Shines

Saturday morning dawned gray and foggy, and I got up ready to walk before the rain started.  But first I made the bed, read the paper, put up the hose, watered the plants, cleared out the clutter under my bathroom sink and finally finally grabbed my phone and headed out the door. Less than 100 yards into it, I felt the first raindrops.  By the time I reached the end …
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What is Essential?

Several months ago, two friends and I each got a Fitbit, a small sensor you clip to your clothes or wear around your wrist.  It syncs with your mobile device and tells you how many steps you’ve taken, your mileage, exertion level and calories burned.  It will even tell you how many hours you slept and whether or not you were restless while you were asleep! My friends and I …
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Are You Experimenting Enough?

Last weekend was our third Discover Your YIPPEE! ® Retreat.  A delightful group of men and women gathered to create plans for the next stage of their lives.  We left excited about the amazing conversations, insights and commitments they each made to themselves, including 90-day action plans.  So in December, we’ll check in and reflect on what’s working, what’s not, what we’ve learned and what we want to do differently. …
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Maybe It Wasn’t A Mistake After All…

This weekend I found a bird’s nest.  It was nestled into one of the gears of my garage door, and when I brought it down, I studied it: a home of woven grass, sticks, and debris from the nearby alley.  The birds had taken what was available and made it into a haven to cradle new life. Your career is like a bird’s nest.  The experiences you have had might …
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